Edmondleaf - I asked about the software update; One of the local guys said they were certified, could handle orders, and was just waiting on inventory (but shows as not certified on the site) - and I'm waiting for an email response back confirming they can do the software updates. The other called me back instead of emailing, and we chatted a few minutes - they aren't certified, but they're in the process, and expect to be within ~3 months (they're just now getting started), and they confirmed that they'd definitely be able to handle software updates and any other kind of maintenance once the process was completed.
As for allocation and RAQ, from what the dealer told me that's correct: anyone can now RAQ, but the newly launched states just don't have any stock allocated to them yet - so everyone will have to end up waiting for the allocation or buying from an out-of-state dealer; and that's consistent with what I'm seeing in my RAQ as well. Of course, sometimes the info we get from dealerships is not 100% accurate, and it might actually only apply to this region anyway, so I can't vouch for that or anything.
kmp647: I had the whole leaf/lease conversation with the dealership I bought from (in a launch market!) 3-4 times in the course of getting the car in. They were still really good to deal with once I got through to the right person, I just had to learn "the guy who knows about the leaf" and ask for him by name
In any case, it's good to finally get this process opened up to everyone. Having some people have to wait a year and a half longer than others who reserved at the same time... well, I've stated my opinion about that repeatedly, and there's no point bringing it up now that it's finally over.