It is indeed needed to start the car and as mentioned earlier, it's the power source for the safety checks before the main contactors to the traction battery are enabled, among other things. The 12V went dead in our LEAF last week following a not too unlikely sequence of events I'll recount here:
1) I was out of town for work
2) Spouse drove LEAF home from work, parked, plugged in EVSE and went in for the night.
3) Next morning, the LEAF was stone-cold dead. Wouldn't respond to any button pushes or Carwings requests.
She called Nissan dealer, they said it needed to be towed in to the shop. I told her to leave it, I was pretty sure it was the 12V aux and I'd be home the next day. I didn't want her to attempt a jump (based on past experience).
So, when I got home, the 12V had 3V across the terminals. I hooked it to a charger, and gave it about 15 mins of charge before dis-connecting and re-connecting the EVSE. It now was charging via the EVSE.
So, what happened?
The most likely scenario, which I've re-enacted to verify, is she never shut the LEAF off when she got home. The parking brake was engaged, the interior light was on when she got out of the car and plugged in to charge. The LEAF signals when you exit with the key and the car is on but it makes a similar sound to locking the car, so I guess it went un-noticed.
Here's the thing, if the car is still on, it won't charge. If she had checked for the blue blinking dash lights she would have noticed I think. So, instead of charging, it just sat there with the lights on, discharging the 12 V. I'm kind of surprised that the LEAF lets that 12V get so discharged before shutting things down but maybe it's in no-man's land where if the EVSE is plugged in the traction battery won't keep the 12V charged but the EVSE won't supply any juice either.
Anyway, it'd all fine now but, I'm thinking I'll need a 12V aux battery sooner rather than later.