IMHO, the OP makes valid points, and I can certainly understand why he decided to cancel his purchase. In my case, whether or not I complete purchase of the Leaf (I don't like leasing) depends upon whether the $5K CA rebate is still available. If I can't get the CA rebate, I will probably decline delivery.
From a purely economic standpoint, there are many automobiles available today (yes, they burn gas/diesel) that are more comfortable, probably much safer, have more room, probably more reliable, and more economical to operate, considering all factors.
For example, I can purchase a tried and proven fully equipped Prius with leather seats, 500 mile range, average 48-52mpg on 87 octane fuel, no range anxiety, no EVSE issues, fully refuel in about 5 minutes, no problems staying warm or cool, etc etc. Oh----and it costs thousands less than the Leaf. My wife and I both drove the Leaf. We think it's a great little commuter car, and that's why we are buying one. But---it's not worth $38,000 (CA msrp, tax, etc, etc.)