Congratulations on a great adventure. An elevation profile of your Barstow-to-Kingman leg shows 1K ft rise at 80 miles, 2K ft fall to river, 3K ft rise to Kingman. What were your remaining miles showing at Kingman ? This leg does not look safely doable non-stop with a Model-S/60, but perhaps one could get several hours of charge at a RV park near Needles. There is a KOA north of Needles.
Charging all night while staying at KOA cabins seems like a good charging solution for a full Tesla fill-up in 9-10 hours at 40A. Does the cabin come with a 50A plug, or did they provide free access to a 50A plug at an adjacent unused parking space ? KOA is now showing $50/night for basic cabin, $99/night for deluxe cabin, so perhaps you got an off-season price.
While staying at a typical motel in Brawley, CA, I evaluated the charging possibilities, and they did not look promising. The guest laundry room had gas drying, no 240V. The manager was not present, but I received permission to inspect the main motel laundry room, which was down a corridor adjacent to offices (long cable), and the machines appeared to be hard-wired without outlets. I know EV drivers have received permission to charge at motel laundry rooms, but it would seem most managers would be extremely reluctant to leave their offices open all night .
The guest rooms had 6-20 240V outlets for the heat-pumps, but I would be reluctant to leave my door open for the cable, exposing the room to the outside air and noise. 20A outlet, 16A continuous, 3.3 kW would barely fill a 40 kWh battery pack in 11 hours, much less a 60 or 85 pack. I would welcome any comments on this assessment.