Okay some updates.
I got access to to settings page on the charger that I was using the most and the one next to it. The two of them are on the same breaker and are in a power sharing network. it turns out that the J1772 Tesla Wall Connectors don't have the access control feature. Only the wall...
I got a used 2012 Leaf in October of 2022 and I've been really happy with it so far. Just passed 50,000 miles and is at 9 bars of health on the traction battery.
I've been having a strange charging issue lately though and I have been looking for any info about similar issues with other Leafs...