The stock wheel tire combo 16s are about 40lbs with almost a 50 50 split 20lbs tires 20lbs rim. The 17s are approx. 10lbs more. This is just by a feel when I took my cousins wheels off but I think someone else did weigh them at around 50lbs.
see this thread
http://www.mynissanleaf.com/viewtopic.php?f=37&t=17478
10.4lb SSR Comp in 15x7 fit. They also come in 15x6.5 for 9.9lbs. Spoon SW388 or Desmond Regamaster (the spoon are made by desmond and re branded) in 15x6.5 are 8.8lbs. That's by far the lightest you will find.
They don't make many lightweight 15 5x114.3 wheels anymore so you'll have to source used or go with rota. The slipstream is the lightest at 12lbs and is a Spoon/Desmond knock off.
You have to be careful with 15s as they won't all fit. The SSR comp does, the Volk TE37 (9.4ish lbs in 6.5) and rota/spoon/desmond should based on what I read with civics and miatas on big brake kits.
http://www.ebay.ca/itm/JDM-15-SSR-T...ls&hash=item3395e890b9&vxp=mtr#ht_4556wt_1017
http://www.ebay.ca/itm/JDM-15x6-5-3...ls&hash=item418b31f999&vxp=mtr#ht_4438wt_1006
Both of those vendors have a lot of light JDM wheels. I bought off of infield parts. Not too happy that one of the rims had been repaired so ask before if there are any previous repairs so if you find they are you can go through paypal and get some money back.
The lightweight rims I have on now on larger winter tires, it really does make a difference, the regen is much stronger and the acceleration is more instant but since the tire is a 25.5in over all it's around the same in gearing.
If you want to stick with 16s about the best you can find is the 12.5lb Kosei K4R (I checked with tire rack, the 16 will fit but the centre cap won't so it wasn't listed if you search by leaf. Search by a 2009 civic LX and you'll see it.) The RPF01 is also good in 16 at 13.7lbs.
You can get 17s from Volk (TE37, CE28) that will be around the same weight, but look at $2400+ new a set and $1000-$1500 used.
If you want to save more weight and you're getting a new leaf you can try to source the old aluminum panels from an auto wrecker. Hood, doors and some others I think. The hood would probably be the cheapest the doors would be the biggest savings.
In terms of the Nismo Japanese parts, good luck. Probably the only way to get them is to find them off a wrecked leaf in Japan. Others have posted about it and could give you more info but it doesn't look like it would ever happen. I've heard they only sell them to Japanese customers at the Nissan dealer fully installed and they take the old parts back as a core.
Suspension is tein for H tech springs, street basic coil overs (re use the stock tops) or blitz coilovers (I think the megan racing US supplied are the same as the blitz)
http://www.nengun.com/search/#g:1;c:3;m:328;t:n:u:y They are also a good place to look at used wheels. I did the H tech springs myself (bought them from nengun) and the suspension sturts didn't jump out at me as needlessly heavy, it's the arms that probably are. They are pretty much all cheap steel parts. If you really want to spend some money I know some guys who could probably build you a custom tubular Ti set up.
http://www.force-racing.co.uk/
Also a previous GTR owner here, but a 1991 when it was still the skyline. God I miss that car, don't miss the gas though.
EDIT
Extreme thought here, I have no idea if this is possible. You may also be able to remove the on board charger and keep it in the garage or source an aftermarket one (such as
http://www.emotorwerks.com/products...sal-voltage-ev-charger-fully-assembled-tested) that you can only take a long when you may need it.